If I value natural order in the Aristotelian-Thomistic sense and want to see my values reflected in politics, I'm "imposing my moral standards" or going on a "moral crusade," and that's wrong for some reason. But if you value liberty and want to see your values reflected in politics, you're not imposing anything, you are "liberating" people.
Except it's not a double standard because a lack of action--particularly on behalf of a government--is distinct from an action of endorsement or proscription. Liberty being reflected in politics does nothing to harm your values unless you consider the mere possibility of competing values existing in society a harm against them--which is a fair position that can be consistently held I suppose, but one that makes your ideas seem vulnerable and unsteady in ways values shouldn't be, because if you believe and uphold your values as actually superior you should be quite capable of convincing society of such absent mandates and laws.
Not imposing something is not an imposition. Imposing something is. If we disagree on this...Iunnow, not much to be said further, it's a pretty fundamental divide and plays into most of the rest of my objections below (especially per why I find your argument unconvincing since...by my differing framework you're not even really making one thanks to our differing starting-points).
Do you concede that, if you had your way, if your ideal society came to fruition, you would be creating a society that I don't consider to be just?
Not at all (or, I suppose I should say, not really?)--because your just society is perfectly capable of existing within mine. Perhaps even necessary to some degree--as argument against excess and hedonism in favor of self-control and measures of denial are valuable perspectives to have. The opposite case, we'll note, is not possible--hence the above and the imposition of your ideals being an issue. Your society and culture can exist within a libertine one. A libertine society you actively seek to destroy. The two ideals are not equivalent and one is fully capable of pointing to or arguing against injustices or wrongs in society without mandating rights.
It's like you ignored how I gave my arguments for my position (porn undermines family formation and religiosity, promotes egalitarianism, promotes unrealistic ideas about sex and women)
Because you've taken those items themselves as positive or negative from the outset without requisite establishment or argument of such. This might be more excusable in the case of the first, families generally being rightly valued. But 'religiosity'? Whose? And your link from it is to porn viewing causing liberalizing social views...Which you'd have to make a case against and DON'T--what, precisely, do you object to in, as the article highlighted, more liberal attitudes women holding jobs, positions of power or abortion (the latter being much easier a case than the former two). Egalitarianism? Not the scare-word to most folks you use it as. You present them as fundamental negatives--others do not share your belief and flat assertions of such will win you no argument or minds on the topic (see here
). I'm not ignoring your arguments, I'm pointing out they're flat assertions of negatives you don't expand upon because of self-evident, to you, negatives that aren't self-evident to broad sections of the rest of society which, in fact, sees a number of them as positives (women in positions of power or holding jobs being okay to laudable by most folks). You note the popularity of the opposing viewpoint there, but you don't do anything but assert your own as being superior and argue that obviously because of these things showing more egalitarianism folks should worry about pornography. The issue isn't the opposing viewpoints popularity or even my adherence to them--it's your lack of addressing why they're more popular and instead using flat 'these things are bad to me, so porn needs to be banned' rhetoric.
As I said above--lot of this seems to be differing starting-points and standards.
Now before you strawman me, I'm not saying people don't have free will and they aren't responsible for their actions. They are. But can you understand my wanting a society that reflects my values, especially when I think the things that I value (traditional families and religion) are essential not only for individuals but for the political order itself?
I can understand it, certainly. I can also object to it because of differing values (and, if we want to get into it, a rather long history of your values overlapping with societal and cultural problems that go unrecognized or covered-up by religious and moral 'authorities' in the interest of shoring-up their authority) and, as mentioned, the capability of your political and personal values existing and influencing culture and society in my liberal utopia--whereas you're seeking the active destruction of my own to achieve your own. THAT'S where you'd be a 'control freak' (a term I'd note I never used...though I suppose I came close enough as to make the implication pretty clear. *shrug* Can't apologize because I still see your argument the same way, but you're not some boogeyman. Just wrong
)
I'd also assert your fundamentally flawed from the get-go in presenting free will as weaker or overly-influenced by societal trends and predilections. Society is an influence on an individual, certainly. The individual is superior and is fully capable of breaking free of prior social constraints or perspectives passed on to them--which is part of the objection to your societies function as well, I'd note. Your treatment of that 'free spirit' is fundamentally objectionable to me.
You may disagree, and seem to on the basis of how you'd foresee a more prosperous and virtuous future for that person in your society as justification. Your conception of 'enough liberty' is not mine, and it comes across as fundamentally arrogant (and I don't mean this as an insult, I mean it as a basic description in the barest sense of the word) of you to presume it's applicable to anyone beyond yourself or, maybe at a stretch, those who share your particular focus and positions on these topics.
*shrug* I can't abide that kind of personal appeal to and assertion of authority and 'knowing-best'...*shrug* Fundamental disagreement in approach it seems to me. A universal point being that to appeal outside those who share your incoming assumptions you'd have to extend upon why positions like those you object to in links becoming more prominent are negative to society as a whole--asserting porn is bad because it encourages an egalitarianism you object to is going to require you pointing to why that egalitarianism is bad if you want the argument to extend beyond those who share your objections.