But again, you need to work on yourself and value the things those women value, put yourself in social environments where those sorts of women can be found ie church, in order to be attractive to them in the first place.
That's a great thing to say to people who aren't terminally burnt out on society's bullshit, who have the time, energy, and willingness to sort through the contradictory data on what women say they like and what they actually like.So you find women who will be loyal and committed in spite of the "incentives" not to be. They exist. This is a victim mentality, acting like the problem is with the system and everyone else and how that needs to be fixed before you can act properly and honorably.
I think it's safe to say that a lot of MGTOW people are burnt out on society's bullshit, and are probably aware that they're little fish in a small pond where there are some big ass fish who're gonna get way more attention.
There's a Captain Picard quote that applies here: "It is possible to commit no mistakes and still lose." Problem is, if your experience is nothing but you and/or others you know losing all the time, you have no incentive to engage beyond the minimum. This isn't a game where there's tangible benefits to trying and failing or partial successes. You either win big, or wind up on the sliding scale of getting fucked in some way.
I can't blame anyone who goes "The only way to win is not to play" when failure is potentially life-ruining/soul-crushing. Sometimes, it's better to have nothing than have something precious and important snatched away.