So are we going to reach a point, where a man will be pressured into a sexual encounter he doesn't want because if he says no he will be shamed and ostracized as a women hating reactionary because women are owed sex for...reasons?
No.
You have to realize that this is coming from a very, very specific group of women that is narrow even within the field of SJWs.
- Said woman must be far left or at least moderately left.
- Said woman is generally reaching the age of 30 or is even older and is starting to question whether or not she'll meet a man whom she is both attracted to and can coexist peacefully.
- Said woman is unable to obtain a man she is willing to settle with.
- Said woman must be angry enough to demand that men fix the problem.
In such a case, most of the younger women won't be able to empathize, because...
- Some of those younger women are competing for the older men the older women want.
- Those women were raised to be told you don't need a man, so there's no reason to agree that other women are entitled, especially when that edges the playing field in your direction, not theirs.
- Those women who are upset are generally going to hold less persuasive power because they're less attractive, so no one cares.
- Some of these women don't listen to their own parents about not getting involved with certain men, why does anyone think they're going to listen to some old, bitter harpy who wants the same man?
- The women who aren't going after older guys are more worried about going after younger guys and so they don't care.
- The argument of forcing anyone into a relationship generally does not play well with women, who are the genetic selectors in the human species. Especially young women who were raised to believe that this sort of thing was a personal choice.
Whatever happened to "you aren't owed sex"?
Agency and autonomy and all that stuff feminists say they care so much about.
Or can they just flat out admit, "men aren't owed or don't deserve XYZ, but women are".
Please?
That's not how this works.
Society is generated towards treating women as the prize. While women may not appreciate being treated as something to be won when it twists into treating them as objects or pets, they most certainly do appreciate things being done for their benefit. And that is natural; men work to protect and make women happy, so it is natural that women expect men to continue to do so, even if they don't have to give anything in return. In fact, some women are accustomed and expect such.
The feminist movement is all about protecting women. Equal pay, equal voting rights, and so forth weren't about the ideology of equality, but rather giving women greater economic and social protections from predatory men. The problem this has created is that it makes it more difficult for women to find a man they're willing to settle for and therefore although they have obtained a greater social and economic security, many are beginning to pay the price in loneliness. And in order to cope with that, they need to either understand where society has led them wrong and address that--which is long and difficult...or blame it on someone else.
That's not to say that everything the feminist movement has done is evil or wrong, it's just that the entire point was never about equality. Once you understand that, it's easier to assess and address a feminist in what they're actually afraid of and then determine what they really want.