It's complicated. Both of you are picking up on reality, this is largely a difference of Grammar.
A great deal of the modern world's politics are "justified" along racial lines, i.e. what benefits the non whites and often what harms the common white male. This doesn't help the non whites long term, collapsing the infrastructure that supports them while tossing them dollar bills like the Joker to watch them scrabble on the ground doesn't actually accomplish anything for them, and that's by design. Nearly a century of welfare and civil rights and specialized schooling and affirmative action have not actually improved the lot of most blacks, along many metrics the average black is worse off now than in 1950.
Someone who tries to prompt you to your worst impulses so as to harm his enemies or exploit your resources is not actually your friend, you're just his "valued" slave and he'll give you the stick if you don't take the carrot.
By effect, the west is strongly anti white, but while it has an extreme vested interest in increasing the number of nonwhites, it has no interest in increasing their prosperity, as they must be kept desperate and dependent and ready to point at enemies who "are the real reason you're poor".