IMHO, divorce is the last option for a marriage.
Divorce should only be considered after the couple have genuinely tried to work things out and still failed, or if one of them is fleeing an abusive situation, or if one party commits adultery (which includes paternity fraud, too).
Cheating is and always should be a dealbreaker, since trust is like a crystal vase: One broken, it's never the same.
However, (mostly) women in this day and age see divorce not with the severity they should be seeing it as.
And why wouldn't they? The moment they "get bored", or just want money, or use whatever they come up with as any old excuse to justify why they want out, they get a golden parachute when they pull the trigger, courtesy of the utterly horrific laws which are for them and against men.
It's partially the reason why men are bailing on marriage completely, the overall quality of Western women aside being another factor.
The moment things like alimony or their getting half the man's current and future shit (like 401k) disappear, the better.
A woman's definition of "unhappy" is arbitrary and up to them: It could mean anything and everything, including "I'm bored with my husband like a pair of shoes, so I want to go fuck a coworker or Chad at the gym because he gives my womanly bits the tingle".
Much like with single mothers in this day and age, there's a chance they're single mothers because of something unfortunate happening to their partners/spouses, but it's typically safe to presume they're single mothers because they just made poor life choices.
Divorce should only be considered after the couple have genuinely tried to work things out and still failed, or if one of them is fleeing an abusive situation, or if one party commits adultery (which includes paternity fraud, too).
Cheating is and always should be a dealbreaker, since trust is like a crystal vase: One broken, it's never the same.
However, (mostly) women in this day and age see divorce not with the severity they should be seeing it as.
And why wouldn't they? The moment they "get bored", or just want money, or use whatever they come up with as any old excuse to justify why they want out, they get a golden parachute when they pull the trigger, courtesy of the utterly horrific laws which are for them and against men.
It's partially the reason why men are bailing on marriage completely, the overall quality of Western women aside being another factor.
The moment things like alimony or their getting half the man's current and future shit (like 401k) disappear, the better.
This.It's not so much people being in an 'unhappy marriage' that is a problem these days. It's the women getting 'bored', or thinking she can 'do better', or just pure greed. And it is women, due to how the system is set up and biased in favor to them.
A woman's definition of "unhappy" is arbitrary and up to them: It could mean anything and everything, including "I'm bored with my husband like a pair of shoes, so I want to go fuck a coworker or Chad at the gym because he gives my womanly bits the tingle".
Much like with single mothers in this day and age, there's a chance they're single mothers because of something unfortunate happening to their partners/spouses, but it's typically safe to presume they're single mothers because they just made poor life choices.
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