Yanderes and Why People are Enamored with the Idea

Arch Dornan

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I don't know when a mod will move your posts but I made a thread if you're going to continue.

It's a worthy discussion. Get to see what delusions people love to think is romantic when it's creepy and psychopathic.

This link I have? That's an actual yandere. She looks physically cute but what she did is psychopathic stabbing someone she's infatuated with and then sitting next to her crush waiting for the police to arrive smoking a fag while there's blood on her clothes.
 

LifeisTiresome

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@ShieldWife

I don't know when a mod will move your posts but I made a thread if you're going to continue.

It's a worthy discussion. Get to see what delusions people love to think is romantic when it's creepy and psychopathic.

This link I have? That's an actual yandere. She looks physically cute but what she did is psychopathic stabbing someone she's infatuated with and then sitting next to her crush waiting for the police to arrive smoking a fag while there's blood on her clothes.
There are people who actually saw this and liked it you know and IIRC wanted to get funds for her.

At any rate, my post is not about Yandere itself. But what this means that men are either simping or demanding content like this. Its not about the Yandere.
 

Arch Dornan

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Pathetic if you can't outviolence your woman your not a man. Hell truth is she's 💯 cheating anyway. No woman is staying with a man she believes she can take. As that's a total failure of your primary duty as a man. Aka protecting your family/Klan.
I don't know if this is the reversal of the domestic abuse boyfriend.
 

Lanmandragon

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The stories of domestic abuse where a girlfriend sticks with her abusive boyfriend no matter how abusive he is. Is that like a male version of the yandere?
Maybe no idea honestly I'm not cucked enough to watch stuff about pansies being abused by women. It's beyond my compression that any "man" could derive pleasure from such. Jesus how weak are you that you want women to "dominate"you? Frankly I'd put a shotgun in my mouth first.
 

Arch Dornan

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Maybe no idea honestly I'm not cucked enough to watch stuff about pansies being abused by women. It's beyond my compression that any "man" could derive pleasure from such. Jesus how weak are you that you want women to "dominate"you? Frankly I'd put a shotgun in my mouth first.
Femdom's a popular fetish especially if it involves lots of leather but I remember Cherico getting freaked out by an ex who wanted a maledom Nazi fetish.
 

Duke Nukem

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Eh, i don't really care if People like femdom or not if that's their fetish than oh well it doesn't affect me.
 

ShieldWife

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So I wasn’t really familiar with what Yandere was, so here is my quick psychoanalysis.

One component of the fantasy makes sense. A girl who is absolutely madly in love with a guy. Completely head over heels for him, lusting for him, wants to be with him all the time. Wanting to be obsessed over like that may not be to every man’s tastes, but at least it makes sense. It is a ego boost, is easy, makes one feel wanted. Particularly in this age where so many women treat guys like crap and think that they are too good for them. It might be more popular with insecure guys or those who aren’t as successful with women. Over all, not so weird.

The second component is the bizarre part. That the girl is not just infatuated, but violently obsessed. That she kidnaps the man, attacks him, threatens him, abuses him. She literally forces herself on him. This is where I don’t understand anymore and where the fetish seems more disturbed. Is it some kind of extreme submissiveness, where the guy wants the woman to just completely control him? Is it based on some kind of feelings of inferiority? I really don’t know, but it does seem problematic.

I would think that a more common male fantasy about a girl who is obsessed with him would be that she is so crazy about him that she is totally submissive to him, that she’d do anything to please him. But what do I know?
 

Lanmandragon

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So I wasn’t really familiar with what Yandere was, so here is my quick psychoanalysis.

One component of the fantasy makes sense. A girl who is absolutely madly in love with a guy. Completely head over heels for him, lusting for him, wants to be with him all the time. Wanting to be obsessed over like that may not be to every man’s tastes, but at least it makes sense. It is a ego boost, is easy, makes one feel wanted. Particularly in this age where so many women treat guys like crap and think that they are too good for them. It might be more popular with insecure guys or those who aren’t as successful with women. Over all, not so weird.

The second component is the bizarre part. That the girl is not just infatuated, but violently obsessed. That she kidnaps the man, attacks him, threatens him, abuses him. She literally forces herself on him. This is where I don’t understand anymore and where the fetish seems more disturbed. Is it some kind of extreme submissiveness, where the guy wants the woman to just completely control him? Is it based on some kind of feelings of inferiority? I really don’t know, but it does seem problematic.

I would think that a more common male fantasy about a girl who is obsessed with him would be that she is so crazy about him that she is totally submissive to him, that she’d do anything to please him. But what do I know?
No your dead on this is what men would want. Not all males but certainly men which is not the same thing. Imagine being so pathetic you want a woman to rule you that's exactly what this is.
 

Arch Dornan

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Yes many males are pathetic cucks? No one who likes "femdom" is a man not a single one. It's really that simple.
The BDSM costumes freak me out.

I don't know if Aristotle did it but there's stories of him doing it being spread.


The second component is the bizarre part. That the girl is not just infatuated, but violently obsessed. That she kidnaps the man, attacks him, threatens him, abuses him. She literally forces herself on him. This is where I don’t understand anymore and where the fetish seems more disturbed. Is it some kind of extreme submissiveness, where the guy wants the woman to just completely control him? Is it based on some kind of feelings of inferiority? I really don’t know, but it does seem problematic.
I blame entertainment when femme fatales are involved. Or vamp whatever it's called.
 
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LifeisTiresome

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An example of a Yandere. Usually, the Yandere really wants to be your GF or wife. This particular example doesn't want a bf but the rest is very Yandere.


Posting my replies from the George thread.

I mean to be fair, I think that’s a fantasy a lot of guys have. A woman that will aggressively pursue them, initiate conversations, and “break their shells” as it were.

You know like in elementary school were the girls chase you to give you a kiss on the cheek.

The idea of the woman who breaks through a guy’s stoicism, or introversion, or sadness or whatever-has an appeal.

I think because more men wish that women behaved that way than they’d admit.

A lot of men would be absolutely thrilled to be chased, it’s just that it’s not something you see in the RW.
You are almost there Lord Invictus.

Basically, the Yandere does what men of the past did. They act, they take the initiative. They sweep men of their feet. Sure, you can say that Yandere are abusive and psychopathic and you are right. But again, we are not talking about Yandere here specifically but what this want for this type of material means in regards to men.

Chad/Tyrone can take the initiative and approach women and get laid or get relationships. The rest of maledom gets scraps or nothing and thus buries itself in simping or youtube girlfriend wife ASMRs/Roleplays where the partner is loving and supportive and will stick by you or is Yandere. Or they do both.
I’m not referring to the concept of Yandere specifically though? I’m referring more to a broader concept.

Men have historically been expected to pursue women. Which is fine, that works.

My point is a great many men would be absolutely delighted if women pursued them.

This doesn’t happen in reality. Whether your good with women or not. So it’s a male fantasy.
Yes. But you are too focused on that its a fantasy aspect. Yes its a fantasy, but again what does this mean in regards to men as a whole. Thats what I'm focusing on.

For example, we see from books like 50 Shades of Grey and Twilight, what women like which is backed up by many studies. So lets do the same and take a deeper look into what this means about the modern male.

So I wasn’t really familiar with what Yandere was, so here is my quick psychoanalysis.

One component of the fantasy makes sense. A girl who is absolutely madly in love with a guy. Completely head over heels for him, lusting for him, wants to be with him all the time. Wanting to be obsessed over like that may not be to every man’s tastes, but at least it makes sense. It is a ego boost, is easy, makes one feel wanted. Particularly in this age where so many women treat guys like crap and think that they are too good for them. It might be more popular with insecure guys or those who aren’t as successful with women. Over all, not so weird.

The second component is the bizarre part. That the girl is not just infatuated, but violently obsessed. That she kidnaps the man, attacks him, threatens him, abuses him. She literally forces herself on him. This is where I don’t understand anymore and where the fetish seems more disturbed. Is it some kind of extreme submissiveness, where the guy wants the woman to just completely control him? Is it based on some kind of feelings of inferiority? I really don’t know, but it does seem problematic.

I would think that a more common male fantasy about a girl who is obsessed with him would be that she is so crazy about him that she is totally submissive to him, that she’d do anything to please him. But what do I know?
I answered Invictus that can apply to this:

You are almost there Lord Invictus.

Basically, the Yandere does what men of the past did. They act, they take the initiative. They sweep men of their feet. Sure, you can say that Yandere are abusive and psychopathic and you are right. But again, we are not talking about Yandere here specifically but what this want for this type of material means in regards to men.

Chad/Tyrone can take the initiative and approach women and get laid or get relationships. The rest of maledom gets scraps or nothing and thus buries itself in simping or youtube girlfriend wife ASMRs/Roleplays where the partner is loving and supportive and will stick by you or is Yandere. Or they do both.
 

LifeisTiresome

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Infact, a Yandere can be said to be like the female version of the bad boy women are so into. Bad boy have dark triad traits like arrogance and willingness to be violent and manipulative just like a Yandere.
 

Lanmandragon

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Infact, a Yandere can be said to be like the female version of the bad boy women are so into. Bad boy have dark triad traits like arrogance and willingness to be violent and manipulative just like a Yandere.
Which is hilarious as "bad girls" do exactly what bad boys say. Otherwise they get tossed on thier asses. When your doing business(,breaking the law) you don't have time to listen to some broads inane chatter.
 

Arch Dornan

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Chad/Tyrone can take the initiative and approach women and get laid or get relationships. The rest of maledom gets scraps or nothing and thus buries itself in simping or youtube girlfriend wife ASMRs/Roleplays where the partner is loving and supportive and will stick by you or is Yandere. Or they do both.
Or if there's a hostess club they simp there.

My mind is blown. Simping is just evolving to show what's already there besides onlyfans.

 

LifeisTiresome

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Which is hilarious as "bad girls" do exactly what bad boys say. Otherwise they get tossed on thier asses. When your doing business(,breaking the law) you don't have time to listen to some broads inane chatter.
Sure. But when I say that the Yandere is just a female bad boy that women want, I mean they literally are that.

Lets for example, consider that people call out male protags in stuff like Twilight or 50 Shades to be creepy or psychos or controlling and in other books, such male protags could well kidnap the female but the female and the fans are ok with that.

Does this not describe exactly a Yandere in what they do?

Or if there's a hostess club they simp there.

My mind is blown. Simping is just evolving to show what's already there besides onlyfans.


These things at least make more sense then the normal simping cause there is actual physical interaction, you actually meet them and talk to them and maybe get sex. Simps pay for nothing or nudes. Nudes are free on the net. They don't even get sex with the thots.

Yanderes are based. thats all im gonna say for now.
Hey man, I'm right with you. I like Yandere's too. I'm not critizing Yandere's here but more analyzing what this implies about the modern male.

Its a more interesting discussion then more bitching about antifa and Floyd.
 

Arch Dornan

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These things at least make more sense then the normal simping cause there is actual physical interaction, you actually meet them and talk to them and maybe get sex. Simps pay for nothing or nudes. Nudes are free on the net. They don't even get sex with the thots.
That's the poor man's simping. So poor even normal poor can find sex workers for a few moments of a good time.
 

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