This is, possibly, the single dumbest take on war.Oil refineries produce fuel that is a cornerstone of civilian infrastructure.
The distribution of all goods, particularly food, relies on oil refineries.
Also helps for electricity production to provide heat in the winter.
Yes it is also used by the military.
The military also consumes food, water, clothing, and electricity for heating in the winter so you do not freeze to death. None of those things are military products just because the military consumes them.
Fuel is not a military target, it is a civilian target that the military needs.
By claiming it is a military target you are being dishonest.
This is a major escalation towards Total War.
Don't be dishonest and admit what is going on.
You have missed it somehow. For Ukraine and Russia, this is already total war.