I'd accept that if the Ukrainian goverment put their money where your mouth is and abolished mandatory conscription, giving their young men a
choice between "fight for your country and probably die pointlessly since even united, you don't have the numbers or firepower to actually win" and "stay home and just trade one pseudo-democracy ruled by a bunch of corrupt oligarchs for another".
Like as not,
this remains the iconic image of the Ukrainian war, lower-class Ukrainian men being thrown into a meatgrinder blatantly against their will.